Dear A Horrible Person,
@Anonymous "I really need advice, I think my boyfriend is cheating and I asked him about it but he never really gave me a clear answer. Instead we talked about how I need to trust him and how unhappy he's been in the relationship recently. He said he wasn't going to dump me unless nothing changes and that if he cheated he wouldn't have the heart to keep it a secret, but i'm still kind of scared. He's my first serious relationship, i'm just so scared of losing him and i'm not sure what to do."
If you have suspicions that he’s cheating, you’re probably going to lose him anyway from paranoia. I personally think you have a reason to be worried, as he didn’t even give you an answer.
But, I think that if the only reason you’re scared of losing him is that he’s your first serious relationship, you need to re-access your relationship. He said he’s not happy in the relationship, are you?
Regardless, you do need to either prove that he’s cheating on you, or trust what he said.
The Advocacy Goddess
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@Anonymous "I've liked this one guy for about a year and a half now and he likes me to but we aren't together. We live in different states. I don't get to talk to him a whole lot because we're both busy you know? A couple of weeks ago I started talking to this guy in one of my classes and found out he liked me alot. I think he's really funny and cute and i kinda like him too. What should i do? Because even though we aren't together i feel like I'm cheating on the first guy :/"
Do what is morally right to you. Personally, I wouldn’t go out with someone if I liked someone else too, because I feel like it would be a waste of time and I’d sort of be leading the other person on.
I think that you should try to sort out your feelings before you try to pursue anything with either of them.
The Advocacy Goddess
@Anonymous "I've had a massive crush on my best friend for three years, but I decided not to do anything about it since I'm going to college across the country. He got a girlfriend while I was away, and I realized I could've been too late. Luckily, they've broken up, but I still have two years left of school. Is it worth telling him how I feel even though a long distance relationship wouldn't work for us? From, Miss Totally Torn."
It depends. Do you think he’d the type of guy to have a long distance relationship? Do you talk often? Would you be able and willing to keep up contact, be trusting, and be faithful? Like, you don’t really know if it would work or not, but maybe it could.
It is only not worth telling him if you’re going to beat yourself up afterwards. Everything is worth doing, so long as you’re willing to accept what happens because of it.
The Advocacy Goddess
@Anonymous "how do i approach the guy i like if im too shy and scared?"
You either don’t, or you work up the courage to. A lot of things can happen if you do (good and bad), but the only thing that will happen if you don’t is that you’ll just admire him from afar. Just remember that technically, he’s just another regular person.
The Advocacy Goddess
@Anonymous "I have been having sex with this guy for almost two months now. We usually meet up at the bar and go back to his place. I really like him as a person and we have a lot of things in common and we have good conversations but I want more. I feel weird because I had been teasing and messing around with him for the last 5 months and two months ago decided to have sex. How do I figure out if he wants more. - Lost little Sprite Fairy."
Well, tell him. If he wants more, great. If he doesn’t, you know he’s only using you to get laid. Do you guys ever just hang out as friends without sleeping with each other? If not, maybe you should try that, too.
The Advocacy Goddess
@Anonymous "So talk to him then, it probably wouldn't be a huge deal right? Don't overthink it, seriously, do it! You'd feel a lot better after and even if it doesn't work out wouldn't that be better than wondering what if?"
What?
@Anonymous "i think i am in love with someone i have never met that is kind of famous. not famous to any extreme but sorta."
I think I’m going to need a bit more information. Have you like ever met him or do you only know him because he’s famous? Like, did you know of him before he was famous? Yeah, I need more info.
